The 5 Love Languages

The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman Book Summary

Over 12 million copies sold!

A New York Times bestseller for 10 years running.

Falling in love is easy. Staying in love—that’s the challenge. How can you keep your relationship fresh and growing amid the demands, conflicts, and just plain boredom of everyday life?

In the #1 New York Times international bestseller The 5 Love Languages, you’ll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman’s proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner—starting today.

The 5 Love Languages is as practical as it is insightful. Updated to reflect the complexities of relationships today, this new edition reveals intrinsic truths and applies relevant, actionable wisdom in ways that work.

Includes the Couple's Personal Profile assessment so you can discover your love language and that of your loved one.

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The 5 Love Languages (Gary Chapman) Book Reviews

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- Great book5 star

I’ve never been the type to get into a book and read, but one of my best friends suggested this book to me. I finished reading it within a week, I was hooked. This book truly made me look at love in the eyes of my partner. 10/10 recommend for all couple’s.

- Hope5 star

This book will help to restore all hope in a lost marriage, it has brought me so much peace and understanding to my own marriage.

- Amazing5 star

Worth the read!

- Great read!5 star

An easy, relatable and great way to learn more about my husband to help our marriage in times of need!

- Amazing!5 star

Loved everything about this book!

- Must read5 star

Very good eye opening book. helped me to look back at passed relationships and understanding the why it feel apart. Thank you for writing this book it’s really helps.

- Perfect Book to Read With Significant Your Other5 star

My husband and I read the book during our period of dating and it has created a foundation for us that has us frequently checking on each other’s love tank. We learned how to be able to love and trust each other more.

- Gods glory5 star

Amazing job Gary keep up the good work it inspired me to live my live out not to actually just talk it but to live it

- True5 star

This book was amazing I have learned a lot from it

- Loved it! 😘4 star

This book 📖 has really been eye opening to me! I think this info will be very useful in all my relationships!! ❤️

- A worth read.5 star

My husband and I don’t have problems in my marriage. I stem from parents that did, though. I have been highly worried since we got married that I would fall into the divorce category. He is the love of my life and I would do anything to keep it that way and educate myself on how he receives his love. Interesting read. Taught me a lot about myself, how to communicate, and how to uplift my husband.

- Different Way to Understand Love5 star

I really like this book as it had so much insight into the different ways that people show their love. These things never occurred to me and it helped me to understand more about myself. Would love to see a seminar!

- No, and here’s why!1 star

This book that I read was absolutely horrendous, The usage of language to describe love is an utter shock and stupidity summed up in one book. The difference between all languages are the styles but not the emotions persevered in this book, this has indeed upset me because I was exited and intrigued by a book like this, I hope that everyone understands the fact that love languages are every languages it is not the accent you say it in it is the words you speak with, saying the same words in a different way will never help you but improving you’re vocabulary to their standards and usage of good words will get you to a point where you will be happy.

- A Must Read If You Want to Be A Better Spouse5 star

I was recommended this book by a friend, now my counselor. My spouse has mentioned it numerous times trying to reach me, and I paid it no attention. How I wish I had listened, I was almost literally reading my failures with each example of the 5 languages. I’ve shed tears and apologized from the bottom of my heart numerous times. I’ve put the lessons into use and I believe there are signs this storm I am battling is beginning to subside and the sun is coming out. Love is a choice, it takes effort and thought; saying I love you is important...but living it through these lessons might just save the one thing you love the most.

- Amazing5 star

This is absolutely worth the buy. It helped my relationship with a lot of things I didn’t know how to handle or do. Thank you!

- Would recommend to anyone trying to better their relationship5 star

An excellent book that I think can seriously improve anyone’s relationship and help to better understand eachother.

- Amazing book5 star

I read this book before i got married and it helped really understand my husband and what you was saying recommend reading!

- A second chance at true love5 star

My girlfriend and I fought constantly for two months and she literally told me that she was going to leave me, but that same day, her sister-in-law told her not to and that we needed to read this book. This book saved my relationship and has made both of us happier. I’ll be forever grateful of the lessons I learned from this book.

- Giving 5⭐️ for simplicity5 star

Very simple concept, yet we all seem to miss it. Useful help in finding your SO’s love language and giving ideas as to how to approach different stages/issues in your marriage. The fact that this book seems to default more to, is to make couples realize your initial stages of “falling in love” are not permanent and that marriages take work. The sooner we all learn to accept that and work on it, the better. I believe the author makes really good and get across points as to this. Would recommend this book and it’s lovingly approach to give first as ask second.

- Very helpful.5 star

I asked God for a sign before reading this book on how to move forward in my relationship. Somehow i found this book the next day. Read it in one day and i wrote down the questions to ask my spouse.

- Love5 star


- Great book5 star

Eye-opening.... makes you understand why communication is important and the diffenent expectations in relationships

- Good book5 star

Good book

- Highly recommend!5 star

I highly encourage all couples to read this book and don’t wait for things to go wrong for you to read this; that’s the mistake many of us make. It’s never too late!

- 10/10 Highly Recommend5 star

This book is amazing and has helped so much.

- Excellent Read (Single Man)5 star

This book transformed my perspective on how relationships work and gave me a deep understanding of how to interpret things and resolve conflict. I think every single, dating, engaged, married, divorced.... everyone needs to understand these concepts. Not only to be a good partner - but a human that can sincerely and meaningfully communicate with others.

- An extraordinary book to learn about yourself and your spouse5 star

I just finished the book and I discovered on how I loved my wife in such a foolish way for the years we’ve been married. But at least I know now and I am more than ever to ensure that I will give all of my efforts into rebuilding my marriage and love my spouse in her primary love language. I hope you can give this book a try. It will help you better understand yourself and your spouse, but more importantly, better understand how to love.

- Love languages5 star

I wish I had this book early on in my marriage, as maybe we could have saved it. I can’t wait to read Love Language for Teens and Love language for children, as I have 13 grandkids aging from 1 year to age 20. Thank you for sharing this valuable information!!! Sincerely, Lisa B

- Highly recommend this book.5 star

Good book with excellent insights which are presented simply. Never before have I do felt the author was talking directly to me. I would strongly encourage engaged couples read this book.

- I love this book5 star

This is a book on my favourites list

- Happy5 star

This book is so amazing it really helped me learn my love language and now I’m learning my husbands I originally bought this book about 3 years ago when I didn’t know if our marriage was going to make it but never read it until now I wish I would have read it then it would have been so much easier for me to get it right I just want to love my husband the best way possible we have been together for 19 years I was 14 and him 15 I think everyone should read this book it’s just truly amazing (writing this with tears of joy in my eyes)

- Better understand your loved ones5 star

Reading this book has helped broaden my perspective while encouraging patience with my husband and family. Now, I understand that we love in different ways and I can show care to loved ones in their language. Must read and keep on file!

- Amazing info & insight!5 star

This book is so incredibly helpful and will forever be beneficial - these love languages are rules of life!

- Vary insightful5 star

I wonder why people should suffer when they can make huge changes in theirs lives...

- Very thoughtful book!5 star


- IT'S SIMPLE5 star

Behind the stars is more like a 4.5 but Chapman earns the half because what this book does in the long run! It really identifies who you are in your relationship and how you want to be validated as an individual first. It's simple and informative and if your smart you know you have to share it with your spouse!

- Idiots' Guide to Emotional Maturity1 star

My mother harped about the concepts of this book for so much of my adolescence that when I read it, I suddenly understood why she had become so dependent on it. If you don't have any emotional intelligence or, at the very least, a healthy amount of introspection, this a solid guide to avoid hurting your loved ones. Let's not mince words: this is a sophomoric approach to interacting with people and it's disturbing that so many adults, adults responsible for the emotional and physical wellbeing of others, need this.

- 😇😇😇5 star

This book really helped me understand my husband better but most importantly it helped me understand myself better.

- A real eye opener5 star

This is by far one of the greatest books on LOVE!

- Question?1 star

Does it come wit audio? Because i drive alot?!?

- Very helpful book5 star

It helps the reader understand many things. Amazing book, I would recommend it.

- Thank you5 star

This book has humbled me in many ways. I am sure that this will help my husband and I to not only use our love language but respect each other's love language as well. I recommend this book.

- Awesome5 star

This saves my relationship! We were speaking different languages and couldn't express how much love we had for each other. And now, we have a translator. I would highly recommend this book if you want to love your partner more deeply or if you are at he brink of ending a relationship.

- Love it!!5 star

I truly believe that if both partners are willing to do their part in this book it could save her marriage and make them very happy!

- The Best!!! Top Notch!!!5 star

This is by far one of the best books I've ever read. I will implement this in my marriage as well as use it to counsel other marriages. I'm a pastor of a church so I've been seeking something concrete I could share with married couples who seek guidance. Aside from the bible this a he book I will draw from to share wisdom, knowledge and understanding with the couples in need.

- Wow5 star

This book left me speechless. It should definitely be a requirement to read this before getting a divorce. If every couple read it there would be a lot less divorces. What an eye opener.

- Amazing!5 star

This book helped me pin point my husbands love language. Dr. Chapman has a very profound way of teaching us how to love one another in a more mature and selfless way. I bought this book yesterday and today I am almost done reading it. Everyone should read this!! Also reading "Anger" and "the power of a praying wife" concurrently. <3 I'm on a mission to save and keep my marriage.

- I've got a Plan5 star

I'm getting married in 2 weeks and this book was part of our counseling. After reading this book I'm less apprehensive about marriage. I knew going in it would be work and effort to make sure after the honeymoon phase we continue to grow in love. This book gives explanations and practical steps to take with my soon to be wife to continue to grow in love and enjoy each other's company.

- Read in one day5 star

If you like his 5 love languages you'll love this one

- What a read!!5 star

I must say this book is so awesome! My wife and I are a young married couple and have been married for 5 years. We would have arguments and shouting matches all the time. We went through counseling and discovered some of these things by chance but this book clearly defines those needs in languages. We immediately put these things into practice and started seeing changes in a few weeks. We plan to give this book to all of our couples friends and I will be implementing it into my marriage counseling at church. This is a game changer!

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- It is inspiring!!!4 star

I took this book by curiosity and i was not disappointed. It helps me to better understand my behavioral patterns and let my bf learn more about me and vice versa.

- Well laid out and easy to read5 star

I have read this book twice in the last 10 years. My sister recommended it to me. It is one of the most influential self help books I have read because it is not only was easy to read but it was also easy to utilize techniques in it. There is a great quiz for both partners to ascertain what your primary love language that is painless to take. 😉. This can be used for other types if relationships too. But it is awesome for long term romantic ones. Read it!

- Wow 🤩5 star

What a beautifully written book, the advice and the experiences in here are truly admirable! This has definitely helped me in so many ways of my life. Highly recommend to anyone married, contemplating on marriage and anyone!! You won’t regret reading this.

- 5 Love Languages5 star

Amazing insight to the different ways in which we show and receive love.. Great communication skills learnt from this great and well delivered book.. Thank you for opening my eyes to things I thought were impossible now are not..

- A great read with practical examples!5 star

A great read. Examples used in the book give you a realisation that many couple problems are not uncommon and surely someone has experience what you have gone thru before. Though applicable in marriages I truly believe it can be applied in many other relationships in life from friends to family. An easy read and enjoyable one.

- Loved it5 star

Absolutely loved this book , made me open up my mind to other people's love languages . I didn't even know existed , definitely recommend this to everyone ! Must read

- Excellent book5 star

Great, very informative and eyes opening book.

- Dr5 star

Best guiding book about know ourselves and partners in a relationship or even those interested in becoming one. Powerful message and very empirically backed up writing. Well done Gary

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- Outstanding!!!5 star

My opinion: I believe that this book is the Holy Grail of saving marriages. No matter what the obstacle in regard to the love languages, Gray Chapman has the answer in this book. Kudos to him, very well written, thank you for all your research and dedication to this topic. I will definitely be applying the techniques written in this book. I will and have already recommended this book to folks that I know will take the time to read this book. Thank you again.

- Refreshing5 star

Whoever I meet next time will have to read this.

- Fantastic5 star

Any person who wants to have a successful relationship NEEDS to read this book. So eye-opening and clear. Seriously awesome book!

- If you are getting married read this5 star

Reading this book made me open my eyes to mistakes I made and offered me a solution. It has motivated me to find my love language and my soon to be wife love language. It just helps you understand what it really takes to have a great marriage.

- Fantastic Book!!!!5 star

This is a phenomenal book and a very easy read. It speaks to both men and women in a way that they can each understand. Read this book long distance with my significant other and it was very eye opening. This is a must read for any couple married or otherwise.

- Amazing read5 star

This book is so insightful it's scary, I saw my relationship in many of the examples used.

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Ill say this... Fuck the 5 love languages!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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@Denock_OG We have five love languages, everyone has a peculiar way they want to be loved but most haven’t paid att…

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@jacobcmurphy He’s scared, She’s scared or The 5 Love Languages

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Learning your partner's love language will save you a lot of stress, honestly. . Do note, there are people with mor…

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HEY! I just took The 5 Love Languages® and discovered my preferred love language is Physical Touch. What's yours?

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This. The 5 love languages basically

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I'm a big believer in using the love languages in your marriage! And I think that these seven things will elevate t…

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Time to read the 5 love languages again.

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